ALONENESS

                                                                    

ALONENESS

                    Life is to be lived. Live deeply, be involved in it and still be alone. You have come alone and you will go alone. Even in a crowd you are alone. Fellow travels will come there, it is your presence - it is a possible phenomena. You do not miss other, you meet yourself. You are present to yourself. Lioness is depressive. Loneliness is the absence of the other. you are not there in lioness - the absence of the other is there.a

                    Life is unpredictable. Les things happen in their own way according to their time.

                    When two person are walking on the road, they are  walking as one and not as two. We create illusions of togetherness; it is an escape. A family living with other members, as a family must understand that each one living in a house - say 4 or 5 aloneness living in a home. The moment you understand this, you become compassionate towards others and their aloneness. Can anyone take the suffering, pain or pleasure of  the other? Can any one die in place of the other? No.

                    When compassion for other is there, it is like a double headed arrow. In our innermost core, there is meditation and in the outer relationships, there is compassion.

                    Buddha has used the words "Prajna" and "Karuna" because basically, religion is concerned with these words. "Prajna" - meditation is the peak of knowing and "Karuna" - compassion - meditation is the flame and compassion is the light that spreads out. Both come simultaneously and are one.

                    Total aloneness realization that you are not separate from the Almighty or God. Love is a by-product of being in tune with the infinite. Love is the state of mind. It is not related to anybody.Is it that you are loving, just loving whatever comes in contact with you. You are love, you live in love. It has become your perfume, goes on silently because it is not addressed to anybody. manifestation of the inner most nature. It is the effortless to spread. When love is addressed, it degenerates into sex.